This weekend we celebrated my daughter’s high school graduation. Class of 2023! Graduation was an emotionally charged day for so many reasons. Getting her through school took a village times. Whether it was my sister bringing her to my office while I worked when she was in 1^st grade, to debating if she was too young to walk home, to leaning on friends and family, and to teachers that provided her support when needed. At times, it was a struggle. But, we made it!

As soon as Pomp and Circumstance started, the tears started to flow. My husband on one side of me and my mom on the other. My father was not feeling well and watched the live stream from the hotel. My husband leaned over and acknowledged all the work I did, and the tears came harder! Yes, we are both parents, but as you will learn over time, I was often times alone with my daughter in the more recent years. But, we did both get her here and were celebrated the moment together. To this moment where she crosses the stage, flips her tassel, tosses her cap, and spreads her wings to fly!

I am so proud of her and blessed I have had God and friends and family along for this crazy ride.

And, I am starting to feel like how I have parented is about to change. She is nearly 18, I can’t helicopter parent (as I stalk here on Life360 while she is at Disneyland Grad Nite!!) and have to let her truly spread her wings and fly. But, how? How do I change my ways and step back? Any tips would be welcome!